I'm not afraid to not follow the herd.
As a JW, I learned how to deal with being different than everyone else, doing different things, not doing normal things.
In becoming an exjw I learned how to be different than all my friends and family.
So now I'm blessed with a two way street ability to (positively) not give a shit about what people may think of me.
I do not feel the need to align myself with either JW or regular behavior or traditions. I pick what I like (which is damn near nothing from JW behavior) without feeling awkward for not doing as everyone else does.
That, and having learned to stand for what I believe to be true and just.